CASA READING LIST
Below is a list of reading materials that might be helpful to CASA volunteers, as well as others interested in child advocacy. As a CASA volunteer, if you read one or more, please drop us a line to let us know what you thought of the book and we will credit you with continuing education hours. Many of these books have been featured in the National CASA Association wonderful publication, "The Connection” magazine.
In addition to providing this list, we would love to know of other books you have read which you’ve found helpful in understanding the situations our CASA children face, so they can be added to our reading list.
"Learning to Live: A Black Woman’s Journey Beyond Foster Care” by Theresa Cameron
Chronicles Ms. Cameron’s early years in foster care; how education became the key to success later in life and her life as an adult. Ms. Cameron tells of what happened after she "aged out" of foster care. (available in the CASA office)
"Surviving the Storm: The Life of a Child in Foster Care” by Julia S. Charles
Ms Charles’ writes about her decade in foster care, including her thoughts and fears as a child regarding her circumstances and how she overcame the barriers surrounding her.
"The Glass Castle: A Memoir” by Jeanette Walls
This autobiography details Ms. Wall’s life as a child in an extremely dysfunctional family. Her father, a brilliant free-spirited man, suffered with bouts of alcoholism. Her mother was also a free-spirit, who did not want to be tied down to a conventional lifestyle. The family constantly moves, living in houses, out of their car and in boxes. The children learn to fend for themselves to keep from starving. Later, as adults, the children become successful, but the parents continue to be homeless. (available in the CASA office)
"When a Child Becomes the 4-Year Old Parent – Trouble Don’t Last Always” by Shane Salter (former executive director of the Washington D.C. CASA program)
This autobiography chronicles Mr. Salter’s life from childhood through adulthood. He details his memories of his drug addicted mother; going into foster care; feeling like he didn’t belong; his struggles with his biological family and foster families; learning that education was a key to success; and how his early life has affected him as a adult and the relationships he has with others. (available in the CASA office)
"A Child Called ‘It’: One Child’s Courage to Survive” by Dave Pelzer
Mr. Pelzer’s autobiographical story about the extreme abuse he endured at the hands of his alcoholic mother.
"The Lost Boy” by Dave Pelzer
The second installment of the trilogy of the life of Mr. Pelzer and how he adapts to life in foster care.
" A Man Named Dave” by Dave Pelzer
This third book in a series covers the adult life of Mr. Pelzer and how he handles adult relationships and making peace with his mother before she dies.
"It Won’t Hurt Forever: Guiding your Child Through Trauma” by Peter A. Levine
2 Disc C.D. Two sections of this CD are for parents to help them support and guide their child through a traumatic experience. The third part, is for both parents and children. (available in the office)
"Out of the Darkness: The Story of Mary Ellen Wilson” by Eric A. Shelman and Stephen Lazoritz, M.D.
This historical drama chronicals the story of Mary Ellen Wilson. Before the world became aware of Mary Ellen Wilson in 1874, it was a hopeless place for abused and forgotten children. Child protection agencies existed, but were reluctant to the point of inaction when it came to saving children from the abuses of their parents and guardians. Children were considered property, and to become involved was to invade the family, a sacred and private institution. (available in the CASA office)
"The Privilege of Youth” by Dave Pelzer
Mr. Pelzer uses this book to do a more in depth look at his life in and out of the foster care system and how it affected his adolescence.
"Three Little Words” by Ashley Rhodes-Courter
This book is an expansion of an essay Ms. Rhodes-Courter wrote for a New York Times Essay Contest. In the book, she examines the child welfare system as viewed by a child. Ms. Rhodes-Courter entered the foster care system at the age of 3 and over the next 9 years was in 14 different foster homes. The story can be frustrating and emotionally draining for the reader, but also a story which reveals the author’s resilience and precocious spirit. She also talks about how her CASA volunteer "got me out of abusive foster homes and ensured that I was on the path to finding a permanent family.” (available in the CASA office)
"Too Scared to Cry: How Trauma Affects Children and Ultimately Us All” by Lenore Terr, M.D.
Ms Terr uses the cases of dozens of traumatized children she has worked with over the years. Although the book’s centerpiece is the 1975 Chowchilla school bus kidnapping, it gives a comprehensive look into the world of trauma and how it affects children. (available in the CASA office)
"Conversations with Bobby: From Foster Child to Corporate Executive” by Bob Danzig
In this book, Mr. Danzig reveals the important role that mentors – both intentional and accidental – can play in helping a lonely child achieve success to find happiness.
"Me May Mary” by Mary Cameron Kilgour
"Me May Mary” is a straightforward, but moving story of how a young woman was able to not only survive the tribulations of an abusive childhood, but triumphantly become a prominent, contributing member of society. (available in the CASA office)
"Ghosts from the Nursery: Tracing the Roots of Violence” by Robin Karr-Morse and Meredith S. Wiley
This book presents a shocking but empowering message: to understand violent behavior, one must look to the cradle. The book brings to parents and policy makers a synthesis of the newest research on brain development in early childhood and a neurologically based argument for competent nurturing of children’s emotional and behavioral development
"Parenting the Hurt Child” by Gregory Keck, PhD and
Regina M. Kupecky, LSW
This book is geared to help foster/adoptive parents in learing to heal and grow as a family and dealing with the hurt and trauma experienced by the children in their home. (available in the CASA office)
"Adopting the Hurt Child” by Gregory Keck, PhD and
Regina M. Kupecky, LSW
This book addresses the frustrations, heartache, and hope surrounding the adoptions of special needs children. It explains how trauma and interuptions affect these children's normal development and often severely undrmine their capacity to function in a loving family and in society. (available in the CASA office)
"Parenting the Adopted Adolescent” by Gregory C. Keck, Phd
With humor, this book gives tips, strategies, suggestions and insights on raising the adolescent child. It helps you understand and appreciate the complicated journey that adopted adolescents face. (available in the CASA office)
"Trauma Through a Child’s Eyes” by Peter A. Levine and Maggie Kline
Trauma becomes imprinted on the body, brain and spirit, resulting in anxiety, nightmares, depression, physical illnesses, addictions, hyperactivity, and aggression. Rich with case studies and hands-on-activities, this book gives insight into children’s innate ability to rebound with the appropriate support, and provides their caregivers with tools to overcome and prevent trauma. (available in the CASA office)
"Hidden In Plain Sight” by Barry Grosskopf, M.D.
This book discusses, how trauma’s – large or small- affect our lives and the lives of our loved ones. The author talks about the effects of trauma experienced by past generations being passed down to future generations. (available in the CASA office)
"Hidden In Plain Sight: The Tragedy of Children’s Rights from Ben Franklin to Lionel Tate” by Barbara Bennett Woodhouse
This book reflects on Woodhouse’s long career as a distinguished family-law scholar and her deep reflection on the position of children in law and policy. She brings riveting stories about famous people, who as children, have made significant contributions in areas such as gender equality and civil rights. Woodhouse presents the reader with the original and compelling argument that children should also have rights, not because they are potential adults, but because of the agency, courage and vision they can and do exercise as children. (available in the office)
"Invisible Kids: Marcus Fiesel’s Legacy” by Holly Schlaack
This novel, shares not only the horrible story of torture and abandonment and the slow agonizing death of Marcus Fiesel in foster care, but also highlights success stories as well. The author uses statistics and facts to show why the system works, why it doesn’t, and where it needs help. (available in the office)
"When She Was Good” by Norma Fox Mazer
Em spent the first fourteen years of her life suffering her father’s alcoholic rages and her mother’s silent depression, and the next three trapped with her abusive older sister, Pamela. When Pamela dies, Em is alone at last. Shy, sweet and smart, Em does her best to live as she imagines "normal” people do. But will she be able to manage now that she is finally on her own? (available in the office)
"A Child’s Journey Through Placement” by Vera I Fahlberg, M.D.
Dr. Fahlberg provides the foundation, the resources, and the tools which will help professionals (therapists, social workers, pediatricians, juvenile justice workers, CASA volunteers and child advocates), parents (birth, foster and adoptive), and others who care to support children for whom the journey through placement becomes part of the road to adulthood. (available in the office)
"Bradshaw On: The Family –
A Revolutionary Way of Self-Discovery” by John Bradshaw
Bradshaw focuses on the dynamics of the family, how the rules and attitudes learned while growing up become encoded within each family member. As 96% of all families are to some degree emotionally impaired, the unhealthy rules we are now living by are handed down from one generation to another and ultimately to society at large. (available in the office)
"What I Call Life” by Jill Wolfson
Removed from her eccentric mother’s care during one of her mother’s "episodes”,
Cal finds herself on "just a short, temporary detour from what I call life.”
Cal finds herself in a group home with four other girls, watched over by a strange old woman everyone refers to as the knitting lady. At first,
Cal can think of nothing but how to get out of this nuthouse. She knows she doesn’t belong there. But it turns out that all the girls, and evn the knitting lady, may have a lot more in common than they could have imagined. (available in the office)
"Beyond Consequences, Logic and Control: A Love Based Approach to Helping Children with Severe Behaviors” by Heather T. Forbes, LCSW and B. Bryan Post, LCSW
This book addresses some of the most pressing and challenging issues faced by parents of children with histories of disrupted attachments. (available in the office)
"Born on a Blue Day: A Memoir" by Daniel Tammet
Daniel Tammet was born an autistic savant who has emerged from the "other side" of autism with the ability to function successfully - he is even able to explain what is happening inside his head. This book explore what it is like to be special and gives insights into what makes us all human - our minds. (available in the office)
"They Cage the Animals at Night", by Jennings Michael
At the age of eight, Jennings Michael Burch painfully concluded that love only meant loss. His lonely odyssey began in Brooklyn when his mother, too sick to care for him, left him at an orphanage, saying only "I'll be right back". This stay was the first in a series of bleak foster homes and institutions, and he never remained in any of them long enough to make a friend. To protect himself from the dull ache of loneliness, Jennings clung to a tattered stuffed animal, the sole source of warmth in a frightening world. This is the poignant story of his lost childhood. But it is also the triumphant tale of a little boy who finally gained the courage to reach out for love - and found it waiting for him. (available in the office)
On the Youth Communications Website at www.youthcomm.org, you will find a variety of publications for teens that help them acquire the information they need to make thoughtful choices about their lives. A brief listing includes:
Fighting the Monster – 39 true, credible stories about teens getting help for depression, sexual abuse, domestic violence, substance abuse, eating disorders, bereavement, promiscuity, uncontrolled anger and many other topics. Teens describe what worked for them, including self-help, therapy and medication.
Depression, Anger, Sadness – Teens candidly describe facing difficult emotional problems and what they did to try and help themselves.
I’m Not Crazy – designed to tell teens the "real deal” about getting help, in language they can understand. It explains mental health services in a way that helps the teen reader get the services they need to get the most out of their lives.
BOOKS EXPRESSLY GEARED TO CHILDREN
"A Terrible Thing Happened” by Margaret M. Holmes
This gently told and tenderly illustrated story is for children who have witnessed any kind of violent or traumatic episode, including physical abuse, school or gang violence, accidents, homicide, suicide, and natural disasters such as floods or fire. An afterword for parents and other caregivers offers extensive suggestions for helping traumatized children, including a list of other sources that focus on specific events. (available in the office)
"Families Change: A Book for Children Experiencing Termination of Parental Rights” by Julie Nelson
A child’s family might change from a birth family to a foster family or an adoptive family. That kind of change can be hard on kids. They may believe that the change is their fault. They may worry about their birth parents, and they may wonder if they can trust the new adults in their life. This book can help children and families through this difficult change. (available in the office)
"Maybe Days: A Book for Children in Foster Care” by Jennifer Wilgocki and Marcia Kahn Wright
This book addresses the questions, feelings, and concerns children in foster care most often face. Honest and reassuring, it also provides basic information that children want and need to know, including the roles of various people in the foster care system and whom to ask for help. An extensive afterword for adults caring for foster children describes the child’s experiences, underscores the importance of open communication, and outlines a variety of ways to help children adjust to the "maybe days” and to thrive.
(available in the office)
"Murphy’s Three Homes: A Story for Children in Foster Care” by Jan Levinson Gilman
Being a pup in foster care is awfully confusing. What’s Murphy to do when he’s taken away from his family and placed in a new home with new people, new pets, and….new everything. As he moves from one house to another, Murphy begins to understand all his sad and angry feelings and finds ways to cope. Eventually, he discovers what it means to be a "good luck” dog as he jumps and barks his way into a comfortable spot in his new home. An extensive note to parents discusses the emotional experience of children who are in foster care, and provides caregivers with information on how to help kid cope with the difficulties of being placed in multiple homes. (available in the office)
"Please Tell: A Child’s Story About Sexual Abuse” written and illustrated by Jessie
Nine year old Jessie’s story talks about being sexually abused by a relative. She lets other children know they are not alone, this it’s OK to talk about their feelings and that the abuse wasn’t their fault. (available in the office)
"A Family for Sammy” by Kate Gaynor
Five year old Sammy is afraid to go into foster care, but learns to adjust and accept his new family. (available in the office)
"Kids Need to Be Safe: A Book for Children in Foster Care” by Julie Nelson
Written especially for kids, this book can help children prepare for, understand, and accept foster care. (available in the office)
From the Robbie the Rabbit Series: (all books below available in the office)
"Meeting My CASA” by Adam Robe, MSW
"Moving to Another Foster Home” by Adam Robe, MSW
"Wanting to Belong” by Adam Robe, MSW
"Robbie’s Trail Through Foster Care: Activity Book” by Adam Robe, MSW
"Robbie’s Trail Through Foster Care: Adult Guide” by Adam Robe, MSW
"Robbie’s Trail Through Adoption: Activity Book” by Adam Robe, MSW
"Robbie’s Trail Through Adoption: Adult Guide” by Adam Robe, MSW